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Your loved one or friend doesn't seem the same. You thought it was the blues, but it's been going on for weeks. And it seems much worse than that.
Is your friend grieving over something? Or could it be depression?
If you want to learn more about grieving, see the topic Grief and Grieving. But if you think someone close to you is depressed, urge him or her to see a doctor.
This Actionset will give you the tools to do so.
Key points
What is depression?
Why is it important to see a professional about signs of depression?
How can you help?
Where to go from here
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Depression is a disease. It's caused by changes in the chemicals in the brain. Depression isn't a character flaw, and it doesn't mean that the person is bad or weak. It doesn't mean that he or she is going crazy.
Depression causes a person to feel sad and hopeless much of the time. It's different from normal feelings of sadness, grief, or low energy. The person may lose interest in daily activities and may feel sad and grouchy for a long time. Other symptoms of depression include losing or gaining weight and always feeling tired.
Depression is common. Men and women of all ages, ethnic groups, and economic groups can have it. It often runs in families. But it also can happen to someone who doesn't have a family history of depression. A person can have depression one time or many times.
Medicines, counseling, and self-care can all help depression. Many people don't get help, because they are embarrassed or think that they'll get over depression on their own. But most people need treatment to get better.
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Depression can be treated. Medicines, counseling, self-care, or a combination of these can help you feel better.
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Depression can be treated. Medicines, counseling, self-care, or a combination of these can help you feel better.
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Many people think that depression is not serious and that they can get over it on their own. But depression is a disease and is hard to get over. If someone you care for has symptoms of depression, it's important for the person to see a doctor, because:
If you think that someone you know is depressed, the best thing you can do is to get the person to see a doctor. The sooner someone with depression gets treatment, the sooner he or she will feel better.
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Most people cannot get over depression on their own. Without treatment, depression probably will continue.
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Most people cannot get over depression on their own. Without treatment, depression probably will continue.
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If you're worried about a loved one or a friend, you probably want to talk to him or her about your concerns. Here are some things you can do:
Tell the person about depression and why you are concerned
Explain why the person needs to see a health professional
Watch for the warning signs of suicide.
Help the person overcome fears about treatment
Many people have reasons why they don't want to see a doctor. Talk about these barriers, and help the person find solutions.
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"See a shrink? I'm not crazy." "People will think I'm weak." "What will my family and friends think?" |
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"It might hurt my career." |
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"I've had counseling before and didn't like it." |
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"Aren't medicines for depression addictive?" "These medicines make you crazy or uninterested in sex." |
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"Someone might get into my medical records and see this." |
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"It's hard to schedule and find time for an appointment." "I can't get there." |
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"I've tried to talk to people. They just don't get it and don't care." |
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"I can't afford it." |
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There are many reasons that people don't want to get help for depression. These include not having the time, worrying about what people will think, and thinking that treatment doesn't work. The best thing you can do is to gently point out that treatment is important and offer to help the person get treatment.
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There are many reasons that people don't want to get help for depression. These include not having the time, worrying about what people will think, and thinking that treatment doesn't work. The best thing you can do is to gently point out that treatment is important and offer to help the person get treatment.
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Now that you have read this information, you are better prepared to help someone decide to get treatment for depression.
If you know someone who has been diagnosed with depression, you can help. See:
If you would like more information on depression, the following resource is available:
| National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) | |
| Colonial Place Three | |
| 2107 Wilson Boulevard | |
| Suite 300 | |
| Arlington, VA 22201-3042 | |
| Phone: | 1-800-950-NAMI (1-800-950-6264) hotline for help with depression (703) 524-7600 |
| Fax: | (703) 524-9094 |
| TDD: | (703) 516-7227 |
| E-mail: | info@nami.org |
| Web Address: | www.nami.org |
The National Alliance on Mental Illness is a national self-help and family advocacy organization dedicated solely to improving the lives of people with severe mental illnesses such as schizophrenia, bipolar disorder (manic depression), major depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder, and panic disorder. NAMI focuses on support, education, advocacy, and research. The mission of the organization is to "eradicate mental illness and improve the quality of life of those affected by these diseases." | |
Return to Depression: Helping someone get treatment
| Author | Jeannette Curtis |
| Author | Paul Lehnert |
| Editor | Katy E. Magee, MA |
| Associate Editor | Michele Cronen |
| Primary Medical Reviewer | Catherine D. Serio, PhD - Behavioral Health |
| Specialist Medical Reviewer | Lisa S. Weinstock, MD - Psychiatry |
| Last Updated | December 21, 2007 |